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Cravings aren’t a debate—they’re a pressure wave.
When it hits, you don’t need a perfect life plan; you need a short list of moves that shut the craving down or at least weaken it long enough to stay clean.
This article is about fighting cravings across any addiction by doing one thing: creating distance between the urge and the actions that lead to relapse.
This isn’t a diagnosis or a cure—this is the stuff I do to not relapse when the craving tries to drive.
How I Define Cravings
I define a craving as an intense urge to use or act that tries to drag us back into active addiction. It is a repeat of our old, “Do it now. Feel better now. Deal with the consequences later.” cycle. The problem is, we know this cycle doesn’t work anymore.
It’s not you “wanting it” — it’s your brain reaching for the fastest relief it remembers. For most of us, using has been a long ingrained way of dealing with the ups and downs of life. It’s how we celebrated and how we mourned. It’s how we hid from ourselves.
For me, cravings usually start with isolation. Once I’m alone long enough, my mind starts glorifying the past—like the old behavior was freedom and not a cage. That’s when the danger spikes, because I’m no longer fighting an urge; I’m fighting a story.
Why This Matters
A craving is a warning light. Ignore it long enough and you don’t just “feel tempted”—you start moving. That’s how slips happen: one decision that seems small, one shortcut, one “I’ll be fine,” and suddenly you’re back in the cycle you swore you were done with.
Relapse usually isn’t random. It’s often predictable: triggers show up, the craving spikes, and without tools the mind defaults to what it knows.
Simple Process: Pick One Weapon
When a craving hits, don’t freestyle. Pick one Craving Killer and do it for 3 minutes.
If it’s still loud, pick the next one. Keep rotating until the wave drops.
3 Things NOT to do
- Don’t negotiate. “Just one” is the craving wearing your voice.
- Don’t sit still in the trigger zone. Stillness is where the fantasy grows teeth.
- Don’t isolate. Secrecy is the craving’s home field.
Craving Killers (5 ways to fight)
1) Cold + Sensory Reset
Do it: Change what your body is feeling right now.
- Drink a full glass of ice-cold water slowly, like it’s medicine.
- Splash cold water on your face or hold something cold in your hands for 30–60 seconds.
- Add one sensory “gear shift”: strong mint gum, hot tea/coffee, one loud song (stay standing until it ends), or a quick shower.
Why it works: Cravings run on a narrow mental tunnel—same thoughts, same movie, same outcome. A cold/sensory reset yanks you back into the present and breaks the craving’s rhythm long enough for you to choose the next move.
2) Body-on-Task (Clean, Lift, Move)
Do it: Set a 3-minute timer and do physical work with a finish line.
- Clean your room, wash dishes, take out trash, make the bed, sweep.
- Or do push-ups, a brisk walk, pacing stairs—anything that makes your body answer to you.
Why it works: You can’t fully spiral in your head while your body is busy executing. Action interrupts obsession.
3) The Route Change (Break the Pattern)
Do it: If you’re out, reroute immediately—different roads, different store, different gas station. If you’re home, change rooms and change what you’re doing.
Why it works: Addiction loves rituals and familiar lanes. Pattern-breaking steals the craving’s map.
4) Contact a Human (No Solo Missions)
Do it: Text/call: “I’m isolating and my brain is romanticizing the past. I need a voice of reality for 10 minutes.”
If nobody answers, call a helpline:
- SAMHSA National Helpline: 1-800-662-HELP (4357).
- If you’re in immediate danger or thinking about self-harm: call/text 988.
Why it works: Isolation is where the lie gets loud. Another person brings reality back into the room.
5) Recovery/Spirit Input (Replace the Feed)
Do it (set a 10-minute timer):
- Watch one recovery clip/talk/speaker that reminds you what’s real.
- Read 1–3 pages of recovery literature or something spiritually grounded (prayer, meditation reading, daily reflection, scripture—whatever fits your lane).
- If your mind won’t settle: listen instead of read (audio counts).
Why it works: Cravings are mental content on repeat—the same lies, the same “solution,” the same exit ramp. Recovery or spiritual input changes what you’re feeding your mind in the exact moment it’s trying to feed you poison. It also reconnects you to meaning—what you’re building, what you’re protecting, who you’re trying to become.
After-action review (do this when safe)
When you’re in a safe environment and your head is clearer—after the craving passes—review what led up to it. This turns the craving from a near-miss into intelligence for your future game plan.
Quick trigger scan (5 minutes)
- People: Who was I with (or who did I talk to) before it hit?
- Places: Where was I? What locations/routes/setups were involved?
- Things: What did I see/do/scroll/buy/listen to?
- Feelings: What was I feeling right before (stress, anger, boredom, loneliness, shame, excitement)?
- Body: Hungry, tired, overstimulated, sick, caffeine crash?
Turn it into a plan
- One trigger you can avoid next time.
- One trigger you can prepare for (scripted exit line, new route, planned check-in call).
- One support action you’ll do earlier (meeting, bedtime, food, boundaries).
For me, this is where isolation gets handled before it turns into a craving. If I can see the pattern—“I stopped answering calls,” “I stayed in my head,” “I started replaying the ‘good old days’”—I can build a rule that blocks it next time (like: “Two unanswered calls means I call someone,” or “If I’m alone after 9 PM, I put recovery audio on”).
Interrupt the Craving (Then Get to Your People)
Cravings don’t require inspiration—they require interruption. Pick one Craving Killer, do it for 3 minutes, then stack another if the urge is still pushing. The goal is simple: distance from the first action that leads to relapse.
Don’t do this alone. The best craving killer I’ve found is getting to a meeting—because the minute I’m in a room with people who’ve lived it, the craving starts losing oxygen. My brothers and sisters in recovery don’t need me to explain it; they already understand, because they’ve been there too.
Reference helplines
- SAMHSA National Helpline: 1-800-662-HELP (4357) or findtreatment.gov
- 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline: call/text 988 or 988lifeline.org
Next Right Moves
- Early Recovery Guide: Start Here
- First Meeting Guide
- Trigger Audit: people/places/moods that quietly set you up (Comming Soon)
- Relapse Prevention Starter Plan (template) (Coming soon)
- Detox vs Rehab vs IOP
- Boundaries Scripts (family/friends/using buddies)(Coming soon)

